My Mission
After years immersed in the competitive equestrian world, I’ve learned one undeniable truth: true success begins with balancing the basics. These foundations are what make progress at every level smooth, sustainable, and rewarding.
My mission is to reframe modern horse training into a grounded, holistic practice that builds lasting partnerships. When horses are physically sound, mentally balanced, and emotionally connected to their humans they are bound to thrive.
That’s why I created The 3 Day Way: a signature approach rooted in three essential pillars of equine wellness:
1. Bodywork
Addressing the root cause of imbalance through:
– Massage to release tension and improve circulation
– Acupressure to restore internal energy flow
– Reiki to support emotional healing and deep relaxation
2. Groundwork
Developing trust and self-regulation through:
– Strengthening exercises for posture and power
– Balancing the body for calm, centered movement
– Stretching for mobility and nervous system release
3. Ridden Work
Creating partnership in motion through:
– Rhythm to regulate mind and body
– Relaxation to allow softness and responsiveness
– Connection to build true harmony between horse and rider
This integrative method allows me to support each horse from the inside out. Whether I’m identifying hidden restrictions in the body, building strength from the ground, or refining communication under saddle, every step of the process is rooted in patience, awareness, softness, and respect.
I’ve had the privilege of learning directly from Eventing champions Boyd Martin, David O’Connor, and Tamie Smith, who instilled in me the values of patience, clarity, and consistency under saddle. Yet, it’s the horses themselves who have been my greatest teachers. They’ve shown me the power of slowing down, listening deeply, and celebrating the smallest steps forward. I believe that every detail matters; how a horse stands at rest, the texture of their coat, the subtle shifts in their expression. These details aren’t simply cosmetic, they’re a window into the horse’s internal balance and emotional state, and they guide everything I do.
While my heart remains in the show ring, my greater purpose is to advocate for all horses, competitive or not, to help them perform, feel, and live at their best. Whether I’m helping a young horse step into their first event with confidence, supporting a seasoned athlete, or realigning a backyard companion, I believe performance and wellness can, and must, go hand in hand.
At its heart, The 3 Day Way is about creating space for healing, understanding, and growth on both sides of the partnership. Training from the inside out to create success both inside the show ring and out.
Because balance is not the goal, its the foundation.
Insured by AMBP
Educated at NWSAM
Nationally Board Certified
Testimonials
"Horse First"
Kelly is one of the rare athletes who truly always puts the horse first. She is kind, patient, and supportive with both riders and their horses. If you’re looking for a trainer who can help you accomplish your goals while still prioritizing your horse’s welfare and your bond, you’ve come to the right place!
Laura B.
"Positive Influence"
My daughter and I met Kelly in 2021 after we began looking for a new stable for riding lessons. Over the next two years, Kelly taught my daughter more than I could have ever imagined. She not only learned the technical aspects of horsemanship—how to properly care for horses, maintain her tack and equipment, and prepare for competitions—but also the importance of working diligently while having fun.
Kelly teaches with patience, positivity, and genuine care for each of her students. Under her guidance, my daughter grew not only as a confident and capable rider but also as a responsible and resilient young woman. I am deeply grateful for the positive influence Kelly has had on her life.
Sheri F.
"Excellent Perspective"
My sensitive mare does not always enjoy bodywork, but really liked Kelly’s manner and modality. I noticed she seemed calmer immediately after her sessions and the changes in her body have held. Kelly’s broad knowledge base and experience give her an excellent perspective; I highly recommend her!
Laura P.